He’s not a girlfriend…

so why expect him to act like one? Here’s a quick-tip to help prevent you from being repeatedly disappointed.

Hey, you control freaks out there…

Even if you’re not a full-fledged control freak, learning to compromise will guarantee an improvement in all of your relationships. Here are some tips on the art of compromising.

Healthy, here I come…

I’m not sure if it has to do with the sudden rash of deaths in the media. After all, I’ve been working with “death” for the past 10 years, so I’ve always been aware of my mortality. Whatever the reason, it’s about time I got back to being healthy, starting with retiring my love of soda. Goodbye, my dear friend. Coffee, on the other hand…Yes, I’ll keep the 1-2 cups a day of coffee. I’m sure I’ve read somewhere about the health benefits of java. But the soda has got to go. In it’s place I’ll be drinking water. I need to be hydrated more than ever out here in California. My hair loves the lack of humidity, but my skin hates it. I’m also going to make a point to start swimming more. I need to get that collateral circulation going!

So that’s it, starting today, I’m bettering my body and mind. Just like that!

For the cheater in your life

Here’s a quick tip for all the cheaters out there…

Rage or Peace? You Decide.

Compassionate communication will help you choose peace when it comes to conflict.

The romance poll

Hey ladies, visit my site and take the romance poll. I’ll leave it open for a week and then discuss the results and what we can do about them!

Attention cyclists!

Today I was cut off in traffic by someone going 30mph. About 10 minutes later I saw a cyclist almost get hit by a car. The car never slowed or sped up or swerved. They never even saw the cyclist. It’s unbelievable to me how people can drive and literally never look in their mirrors or out their windows. This is just a reminder to cyclist to please pay attention, because the drivers sure as hell aren’t.

Need help? Here I come!

It’s what I know most about, and now I’m able to share my knowledge with the world! I’m the first SF “Relationship Improvement” Examiner at examiner.com. I guess they thought I had something useful to say. I’ll be posting roughly four articles a week. Feel free to comment or send questions! The more the better You can read all my goodies here. Jenna’s Relationship Improvement Examiner page

Proven: Hanging with the girls is good for your health!

 

I believe this to be absolutely true. Oh, how my quality of life improved when I realized the importance of girlfriends and made them a priority. I particularly the love the part about the differences of how men and women react to stress. I’ve seen my fair share of men close off and hide away when all I wanted to do was talk talk talk. Thank god for friends!

 

Read on, hang out and stay healthy!

 

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The Moto Guzzi Diaries

He pulls on his black leather pants. I realize that he’s riding his motorcycle to work today and on cue, the butterflies begin. I have trouble taking my eyes off him and I struggle to stay focused on myself.  A few minutes later I find him in the garage lacing up his black motorcycle boots. Standing in the doorway brushing my teeth, I watch his ritual. I watch in awe as he prepares for his ride, and I can’t help but think that he looks like the badass that he is. I fight the urge to walk over and pull him off the bike for some fun. Part of the attraction is his obliviousness to it. As a man who looks in the mirror about twice a year, he has no idea what he exudes. I don’t want him to leave, but the moment nears. He tells me he loves me. The helmet goes on and I’m closed off from his world. Regretfully, I watch him ride away, looking as sexy as I’ve ever seen him. And I’m left there, toothbrush hanging out of my mouth, drooling.