Why you shouldn’t use Yelp! to search for a Dentist

Most of us have, at one time or another, used Yelp! or some other social media review site to research a place of business, such as a restaurant. Using a review site to find a great restaurant may be ideal. If it turns out the reviewers were a bunch of compulsive liars, worse case scenerio is you end up hugging the toilet for a few hours.

On the other hand, if you’re searching for something as important as a doctor or a dentist, you might want to think twice before trusting Joe Schmo’s review. Call me crazy, but when it comes to choosing a health professional who will be injecting my mouth with lidocaine and drilling for oil, I want to know more about the business than whether the receptionist was friendly.

Continue reading this article to find out what info you should be looking for when searching for a dentist.

Are Silver Amalgam Fillings Hazardous to Your Health?

There’s quite the controversy over whether silver fillings should be replaced due to their mercury content. Here’s what I’ve discovered.

Moms and Step-moms: Can’t we all just get along?

One of the most challenging relationships is between a mom and step-mom. The dynamic, the emotions and thoughts involved with the situation can be extremely volatile. Let’s see if we can’t curb that craziness a little.

Human Atrocities

Let’s take a moment to remember how lucky we actually are.

http://www.cnn.com/2009/LIVING/06/04/cnnheroes.betty.makoni/index.html

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I’m so tired. I’m tired from the drama. I’m tired from watching the ugliness and the hate between them. I’m tired from listening to the resentment and anger between them. I’m tired from always trying to stay positive. I’m tired from always being there when he needs me. I’m tired from always trying to put a smile on my face. I’m tired from always being supportive and encouraging. I’m tired from watching the man I love struggle on a daily basis with a situation he can’t control. I’m tired from this life that is not mine but that I live.

Relationship tips?

I see advertisements on so many websites for “relationship tips”. Want a tip? Fix yourself. Work through YOUR issues. Stop blaming others for your miserableness and take responsibility for yourself. If you don’t, the same problems will keep occurring with every relationship you have. There, now I’m just one more website with a relationship tip. Awesome.

The Day History Was Made

“But today we celebrate this triumph of decency over personal attack, of peace over war, of intelligence over a belief that Adam and Eve rode around on dinosaurs just 6,000 years ago. What will it be like to have a smart president? Science, banished for eight years, will return. Imagine supporting our country’s greatest minds as they seek to cure illness, discover new forms of energy, and work to save the planet. I know, pinch me.” – Michael Moore

When the heaviness lifts

Thank god there comes a time when the heaviness lifts. When I’m down in it, even though intellectually I know I’ll feel better eventually, it’s hard to imagine. Then suddenly, when I least expect it, I start to laugh again. I start to smile easily and my heart doesn’t feel so heavy. Im feeling like my old self again and it’s such a relief. Life is moving on, and looking up! :)

Just another reason to boycott Walmart

 Via CNN.COM

Debbie Shank breaks down in tears every time she’s told that her 18-year-old son, Jeremy, was killed in Iraq.

 Even though the 52-year-old mother of three attended her son’s funeral — she continues to ask how he’s doing. When her family reminds her that he’s dead — she weeps as if hearing the news for the first time.

Shank suffered severe brain damage after a traffic accident nearly eight years ago that robbed her of much of her short-term memory and left her in a wheelchair and living in a nursing home.

It was the beginning of a series of battles — both personal and legal — that loomed for Shank and her family. One of their biggest was with Wal-Mart’s health plan.

Eight years ago, Shank was stocking shelves for the retail giant and signed up for Wal-Mart’s health and benefits plan.

Two years after the accident, Shank and her husband, Jim, were awarded about $1 million in a lawsuit against the trucking company involved in the crash. After legal fees were paid, $417,000 was placed in a trust to pay for Debbie Shank’s long-term care.

Wal-Mart had paid out about $470,000 for Shank’s medical expenses, but in 2005, Wal-Mart’s health plan sued the Shanks for the same amount.

The Shanks didn’t notice in the fine print of Wal-Mart’s health plan policy that the company has the right to recoup medical expenses if an employee collects damages in a lawsuit.

The family’s attorney, Maurice Graham, said he informed Wal-Mart about the settlement and believed the Shanks would be allowed to keep the money. Video Watch this couple’s story »

“We assumed after three years, they [Wal-Mart] had made a decision to let Debbie Shank use this money for what it was intended to,” Graham said.

The Shanks lost their suit to Wal-Mart. Last summer, the couple appealed the ruling — but also lost it. One week later, their son was killed in Iraq.

“They are quite within their rights. But I just wonder if they need it that bad,” Jim Shank said.

In 2007, the retail giant reported net sales in the third quarter of $90 billion.

Legal or not, CNN asked Wal-Mart why the company pursued the money.

Wal-Mart spokesman John Simley, who called Debbie Shank’s case “unbelievably sad,” replied in a statement: “Wal-Mart’s plan is bound by very specific rules. … We wish it could be more flexible in Mrs. Shank’s case since her circumstances are clearly extraordinary, but this is done out of fairness to all associates who contribute to, and benefit from, the plan.”

Jim Shank said he believes Wal-Mart should make an exception.

“My idea of a win-win is — you keep the paperwork that says you won and let us keep the money so I can take care of my wife,” he said.

The family’s situation is so dire that last year Jim Shank divorced Debbie, so she could receive more money from Medicaid.

Jim Shank, 54, is recovering from prostate cancer, works two jobs and struggles to pay the bills. He’s afraid he won’t be able to send their youngest son to college and pay for his and Debbie’s care.

“Who needs the money more? A disabled lady in a wheelchair with no future, whatsoever, or does Wal-Mart need $90 billion, plus $200,000?” he asked.

The family’s attorney agrees.

“The recovery that Debbie Shank made was recovery for future lost earnings, for her pain and suffering,” Graham said.

“She’ll never be able to work again. Never have a relationship with her husband or children again. The damage she recovered was for much more than just medical expenses.”

Graham said he believes Wal-Mart should be entitled to only about $100,000. Right now, about $277,000 remains in the trust — far short of the $470,000 Wal-Mart wants back.

Refusing to give up the fight, the Shanks appealed to the U.S. Supreme Court. But just last week, the high court said it would not hear the case.

Graham said the Shanks have exhausted all their resources and there’s nothing more they can do but go on with their lives.

Jim Shank said he’s disappointed with the Supreme Court’s decision not to hear the case — not for the sake of his family — but for those who might face similar circumstances.

For now, he said the family will figure out a way to get by and “do the best we can for Debbie.”

“Luckily, she’s oblivious to everything,” he said. “We don’t tell her
what’s going on because it will just upset her

My friend, M.

Let me tell you about her. She’s beautiful, funny, interesting, has an IQ higher than most, and stands taller than most women. Some might be intimidated by her stature; at 5′10 with long blonde hair, people notice her. But the thing about M, the thing that I love that about her, is her gentle heart. She’s a trusting soul and she has a lot of love to give. She’s just looking for someone to share that with. She wants that, just like the rest of us, and she deserves it. I’m writing about her tonight because she’s going through a tough time. She needs a true friend and I hate that I can’t be there for her.  I left her when I left Florida, but I think about her every day. So this is my homage to M. It’s not much, but I hope it gets my point across. 

 

And to M, I say this. Continue to stand tall and beautiful and stay true to yourself.  I love you and I’ll be seeing you soon.